Social Skills Milestones by Age

   
       
 

Milestones by Age One

  • smiles spontaneously
  • responds differently to strangers than to familiar people
  • pays attention to own name
  • responds to no
  • copies simple actions of others

Milestones for One and Two

  • recognizes self in mirror or picture
  • refers to self by name
  • plays by self; initiates own play
  • imitates adult behaviors in play
  • helps put things away

Milestones for Two and Three

  • plays near other children
  • watches other children; joins briefly in their play
  • defends own possessions
  • begins to play house
  • symbolically uses objects, self in play
  • participates in simple group activity
  • knows gender identity

Milestones for Three and Four

  • joins in play with other children; begins to interact
  • shares toys; takes turns with assistance
  • begins dramatic play, acting out whole scenes

Milestones for Four and Five

  • plays and interacts with other children
  • dramatic play is closer to reality, with attention paid to detail, time,
    and space
  • plays dress-up
  • shows interest in exploring sex differences

Milestones for Five and Six

  • chooses own friends
  • plays simple table games
  • plays competitive games
  • engages in cooperative play with other children involving group decisions, role assignments, fair play